Do We Manage Addiction or Cure It?

By Eddie Capparucci, Ph.D.

At a recent conference where I was speaking, someone challenged my premise that individuals learn to manage their addictions rather than cure them. I respect differing viewpoints, but this one sparked an important question: Does the term "managing" addiction create a misleading image of constant vulnerability? If so, that would be a very unrealistic image of someone who has successfully learned to manage their addiction.

But let us start by examining the idea that addictions can be cured. Cure means to eliminate a disease state. This would require the disease to be completely eradicated from the body. This does not apply to addiction because addiction is not a disease. Although many will debate that point, including the American Medical Association, which defines addiction as a chronic disease of the brain. Others, including myself, believe addiction is the result of behavioral, psychological, and environmental factors.

So, what does managing your addiction look like?

Recognizing your susceptibility: You have an addictive brain (prone to overstimulation) and a compulsive nature (you are more reactive than responsive).

Prioritizing well-being: Stay attuned and committed to your mental, emotional, physical, and spiritual health.

Knowing your core emotional triggers: Know what activates your Inner Child and stay one step ahead of them.

Nurturing connections: Build rich relationships with others and God to fill the void addiction could not.

Seeking help when needed: Be courageous to reach out before temptation takes hold.

Managing your addiction does not mean you battle with it. Many in sobriety don't struggle at all, especially when they prioritize self-care and surround themselves with positive influences. There are no miracle cures for addiction; instead, long-term success is found with a commitment to being a more mature and responsible individual.

Dr. Eddie Capparucci is a licensed professional counselor certified in treating Problematic Sexual Behaviors. Among his many clients, he has worked with professional athletes, including NFL and MLB players and television personalities. He is a board member of Christian Sex Addiction Specialists International, an organization offering addiction certification for clinicians, coaches, clergy, and lay leaders.

He is the creator of the Inner Child Model™ for treating addictive behaviors. He is the author of five books, including Going Deeper: How the Inner Child Impacts Your Sexual Addiction and Why Men Struggle to Love: Overcoming Relational Blind Spots.

He is the administrator of the websites www.MenAgainstPorn.org and www.SexuallyPureMen.com. Over the years, he has spoken to numerous organizations regarding the harmful impact pornography has on individuals, relationships, and society. He hosts a monthly webcast: Getting to the Other Side: Helping Couples Navigate the Road to Recovery. You can learn more about his Inner Child Model at www.innerchild-sexaddiction.com.