It is one of the most frustrating and painful barriers couples face in betrayal recovery.

This Thursday at 1 PM CT, Tami and I are going to talk openly about why defensiveness shows up so quickly for many betrayers and—more importantly—what can actually help reduce it.

We will explore:
• What triggers defensiveness
• Why simply telling someone to “stop” rarely works
• Practical ways betrayers can begin responding with accountability instead of protection

If defensiveness has been getting in the way of real healing in your relationship, this conversation is for you.

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